When you make love, who comes first: the guy or the girl?

There is not one way to do it. If you’re in a relationship you have to find out what works best for you. But usually it’s easiest if the girl comes first. Girls often stay in a sexual mood after their orgasm and don’t mind continuing lovemaking. They might even come a second or a third time. With guys the sexual feeling often vanishes after their climax. They’re satisfied and want to move on to other things. It can then be quite a job to continue. A common pattern is having the girl come to orgasm first by fingering her, by oral sex or through her own activity. After she is satisfied she can pleasure you, saving intercourse for the end.