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When you kiss someone you caress the lips of your lover with your own lips. Some find this the most intimate erotic act. So it’s no surprise most prostitutes don’t kiss a client on the lips.
Kissing is most pleasant if you stand very close and you are relaxed, your lips and cheeks feeling soft and firm at the same time.
Make sure your breath is fresh. This sounds logical, but research shows bad breath to be a common complaint when it comes to kissing.
If you both angle your face in opposite directions your noses will not be in the way. If you wear glasses take them off.
Don’t use too much saliva. Some people like it, but many don’t. So if you kiss for the first time your lips should be moist, but not too wet.
Sometimes it’s hard to find the right moment for the first kiss. A natural and easy opportunity is when you arrive or say goodbye. Instead of hugging or a kiss on the cheek you kiss the other person on the mouth. Do it softly and pull away to discover whether it is appreciated or not.
Vary the intensity and duration. After the first few kisses you may try the French kiss, using your tongue.
Kissing can be a prelude to sex. But it is most exciting if it’s felt as a joy unto itself.
In long term relationships many people don’t kiss anymore. That’s too bad. Kissing is intimate and sensual, so don’t let your kissing skills get rusty.

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